Buang yang keruh Ambil yang Jernih

In all occasions, there is always two ways to look at things. You can choose to focus on the positive, or to go with the negative one. Of cause it is you who make either one of it grow bigger (I'm guilty for it :p)

Yeah, my in laws didn't enjoy the wedding and the whole family(big family) emitted a very strong annoying negative vibes. Lack of smiles and complains all the time..(i can read their lips from the pelamin, lol~!) My husband's mom did raised her voice against my Aunt. Its menengking! It happened when my Aunt was inviting my husband to join the Bride(me) for photo and video of us coming out of the car..and she said "X boleh nanti-nanti ke?!!!". After that, dgn muka bngkak nye...all the family members march into the hall (walking behind us).. shockingly, all of em were with muka bengkak. da hell???!!! Dtg merosakan majlis org. Kan dh dpt title Green Goblins (they were wearing green).

I only found out on the next day.. I did apologize to my Aunt on fb msg about the incident.. and she replied.."May the Force be with you Jiha"... then i said "May the odds forever be in my favor"...and she said she doubt that... judging by my husband's mom attitude. Its actually not true. To be happy is my choice and my action. If his mother choose not to be happy with my present then its her LOST. Not mine. I must make my husband happy :) Its all that matters.

His mother can be the poison. I wanna be the cure ^^


Hikmah di sebalik Kejadian..
You see.. manusia memang x perfect. sentiasa nak cari salah. Lagi2 a person like me. I can hold on to grudge for centuries. Childish and immature, i know. I used to have a mask. But i grew tired of it that i threw it away. now I will be myself at all times. And guess what, people hate me now. LOL  =___=!

The Bright Side
The good thing is, we (all the people close to me) are too immerse with the hatred against these 'guests'(The Green Goblins)..that we didn't have much to say about our wrong doings. Hahahah! I mean, my wrong doings. I was on PMS before and on the wedding. I scolded  my sister..and offended a lot of ppl..but I did say sorry later..:p

And the good thing for them, my husband's mom and her sister is not that ngam before this. Its because they are of the same type of people. But! for the wedding.. and despite our disagreements(me and them..on baju and etc), they get to unite and gang up on me & my family. Bravo!!!! See, there's always a Hikmah behind it ^___^


Last night in the toilet, something hit me!

Do u guys know the cartoon series The Regular Show on Cartoon Network?? Below is a must see videos!!

That is when Rigby got the Summer Time song stuck in his head..

Then Mordercai and the gang trying to get the summer time song out of Rigby's head..They ended up writing and singing a cheezy and catchy song. Its a 'wave war'..

What I'm trying to say is ... what ever -ve influence these in laws have..what ever -ve energy they emitted.. I just have to beat it with my own wave.. They declared a cold war on me. 

Well hey, all I have to do is be myself. And emit a HUGE and POWERFUL wave to beat them. Even if I can't change them, at least I'm at peace ^^

So! Note to self;

1. Take good care of my husband.

2. Never offend my husband.

3. Cook for him.

4. Make sure he take his supplements.

5. Never badmouth bout his family in front of him (eventhough its the truth)

6. Put on a smile (genuine one) and be myself ^_^

7. Don't camouflage into one of them.

8. LLB- Make more Elken appointments.

9. Hangout with the one biologically related to me often. Weeeee!

10. Must find some place else to live.

Bak kate ibu, "Dekat-dekat busuk, Jaun-jauh wangi" :]